Hailey always fully understands, that when I have to reiterate lessons, to allow full absorption of the lessons, that her punishment sessions of the same, will not be like those of maintenance. When she was driving to my house, I knew her butterflies would be swarming against her insides. She has described that on many occasions. She never knows what to expect before she arrives. She never knows the lessons. She knows, two things though... Her bottom will be sore for a few days afterwards, yet, her focus will be stronger than ever. Hailey's punishments are special. She is not a spanko, but a woman that realized structure and consequences, made her life better. This acrylic strap, it the bringer of butterflies.