I purposely select implements based on behaviors and how they align with the entire sessions punishments. In this instance, since her 'party-girl' behaviors were repeat offenses, this broad strap had the burn, for the lesson I intended. The ruler over her shorts was a building block for her secondary handled strap, followed by the more intense broad strap. It was a step-ladder system to a burning crescendo. When Hailey she is on the honor system regarding her partying. This system includes telling me about any partying that occurs. She tried not telling me once and that came back to bite her on the ass (you know what that bite is) So, she is careful now to let me know of her behaviors and accept the punishments for said behaviors. She always feels better after being confronted and punished, so she can get past it. It has worked like a charm for now our fifth year.