Someone asked me once, 'Does Hailey enjoy her spankings?' Does she enjoy the pain? No. Is she a spanko?... Not, in the classic definition. She is the remarkable unicorn that you hear about sometimes. She is a woman, who has learned to relish having consequences, to keep her on a path she desires. That is why; I take this seriously with her. Spankings make the obstacle course that is her life, easier to navigate. I am as much her mentor, as she is my muse. She is as much my friend, as I am her disciplinarian. There is a balance, which is as remarkable as she is herself.