When I asked Hailey the first time I spanked her, which implement got her to sit up and notice...she replied ' That horrible hairbrush!' I made a point of punishing her with it regularly after that! This gorgeous college athlete uses my spankings as consequences of not giving everything she has in her endeavors. I spoke to her just yesterday and she told me that she wants to try lots of things, but sometimes spreads herself too thin. I sent her a video from Bill Withers called ' Do it Good'. She also found out that if she takes on a new learning project...She better do it good, or else.