When I caught Hailey (well, discovered what she had done after her visit) I of course called her saying 'It is about that time again'. She responded with 'This close to Christmas?' Yes, and my birthday too. She had no response for that. She had requested I don't use a brush. I told her 'I won't use a brush'. I didn't say anything about 'two brushes' though. When she discovered later in this session that she was in fact getting two brushes (loop hole) I believe that is emotionally what caused her to use her first ever safe word (after six years) Hailey always cries more when her spankings are for personal reasons. I feel she really felt bad for this snooping incident, because she was kind of ashamed of herself.