Nothing is more personal a punishment than skin-on-skin spankings. Hailey and I have an understanding wherein discipline is concerned. Sure she messes ( a lot), but she never has failed to accept her discipline, so that she can move on. That is why I love her and you should too. She is the true essence of what disciplinary spankings represent. Which is gaining from them on a personal level and coming across a better person from them. Spankings saved her life and she would be the first to tell you that.