When you have a spanking submissive, there are little signs they will give you. In this case I gave Hailey the choice of two paddles. She chose to not make it about how painful one was, as compared to the other. Instead, she made it about me, having told her that this large paddle with holes was probably my favorite paddle once. She chose the paddle she felt I would desire to paddle her with. Since this session was for pretty seriously dangerous behaviors. I was touched that she would say that. This was the last spanking she got that day and I always like to send her out the door, with a reminder she will feel the entire ninety-minute drive home. She used to bring pillow for her ride home. She doesn't any longer, as she wants to be reminded, of what misbehaviors, brought her to me. She learns from her spankings and always strives to do better afterwards.